“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life” – Steve Jobs
Every one of us is a unique soul with a unique personality. You were designed to be unique!
Listen: it’s ok to have preferences – it’s not right when Christianity tries to make people into clones – the Stepford Wives church! Everyone dresses the same, walks the same – no, we are unique individuals. In Genesis 10, at the Tower of Babel was built with bricks. That’s how the world builds – everyone is shaped to be the same, fit in, fit together, become a clone. But in Exodus 20.22, we are told not to build the altar of the Lord with cut stone – use the stones as they are. God wants to use you as you are with your personality as you are! Some stones are more loud, some more quiet – but God does not want to change your personality for you to be part of His kingdom.
(Now there are some sins more tempting to loud people, some are more tempting to quiet people and you have to be aware of that in terms of your disposition – but having a unique personality is not a sin!) You are who you are!
All our life we spend so much effort trying to fit in, but God has made you to stand out.